The surprising way to spice up your sex life – no acrobatics needed

Great orgasms require just the right amount of tension and relaxation. Sex pillows can provide just a slight difference in the angle of pressure or penetration and can make a big difference to your pleasure.

2021-03-14T06:43:40+00:000 Comments

5 Tantra Practices to increase sexual desire

As a Tantra teacher and sexologist I'm often asked "How can I increase my sexual desire"? Perhaps you have less desire, your partner has a higher sex drive or you find you're seldom in the mood. I share my favourite 5 Tantra tools for igniting desire - even when you think you're not in the mood!

2020-03-02T20:37:42+00:000 Comments

7 fun ways to increase your chance of reaching orgasm tonight

Hey loves - and welcome the penultimate podcast of Orgasm week! Today I’m answering a final question from someone in my community. She says: I have had orgasms before. Most of the time by myself and sometimes with my partner, but the thing is, I don’t always with him. It’s really frustrating. I don’t [...]

2019-06-25T02:54:38+00:000 Comments

The 7 different kinds of orgasms women can have

Today, as part of O Week, we’re talking about one of my favourite topics ... the 7 different kinds of orgasms women can have!! I like to think of all these different kinds of orgasms as just different ‘flavours of pleasure’. Sometimes, I want different orgasms at different times. Any orgasm is a great [...]

2019-06-25T02:54:46+00:000 Comments

Why can’t I orgasm with a partner – but I can by myself?

I'm loving Orgasm Week! As I've shared before, my new online course for women - Epic Orgasms is being released next week, so to celebrate, I’m sharing a whole week of podcasts on the female orgasm. Today, I’m answering another question sent in to me by a woman in my Facebook group. She wrote: [...]

2019-06-25T02:55:06+00:000 Comments

Will I always know if I’ve had an orgasm? How can I tell?

Welcome to what I’m calling Orgasm Week! My new online course for women - Epic Orgasms is being released next week, so to celebrate, I’m going to be sharing a whole week of shows on the female orgasm. Today I’m answering a listener’s question: Will I always know if I’ve had an orgasm? How [...]

2019-06-25T02:55:21+00:000 Comments

What is the Orgasm Gap? What causes it and how do I fix it?

Have you heard of the Orgasm Gap? The orgasm gap is a scientifically documented gap in the rates that men and heterosexual women achieve orgasm during sexual encounters together. Men are twice as likely to have an orgasm in heterosexual sexual encounters than women. I don’t think sex needs to end in orgasm for it to [...]

2019-06-25T02:55:31+00:000 Comments

“I don’t think I’ve ever had an orgasm”

How can you tell if you’ve had an orgasm?  Do you ever feel like you’re close, but can’t quite get there?  Perhaps some women just can’t orgasm?  I know many  women struggle to or are unable to reach orgasm, but feel too embarrassed to talk to someone about it. Don’t worry – you’re really [...]

2019-05-14T07:08:02+00:000 Comments