There is no need to be nervous. The exercises I will give you will focus on your connection and emotional intimacy, to begin with. When I do give you physical homework and home play to build your sexual intimacy, we will focus first on exercises that help you learn to communicate and move forward step [...]
I’m so glad you asked this question. I have put together a special section on my site for tackling this, which includes tips on how to start the conversation, specific scripts to help you and what to do if your partner says no. Click here to read them.
We definitely have some challenges with sex right now, but I feel like it’s more than that. Do you look at other areas of the relationship too?
Yes. I believe that all areas of our relationships are connected. Emotional intimacy and sexual intimacy are linked, so it's important to address both. I make sure we look at all areas of the relationship when you’re working with me.
I’ve seen many couples on the brink of separation who chose to invest time, energy and attention in their relationship and went on to stay together in happy relationships. I understand that this is an investment of time and money without a guaranteed outcome. What you can be certain of is that you'll get proven, [...]
I’m not sure that our relationship can be saved, or if I want it to be..Is there any point in coming to therapy?
Many couples who attend therapy are on the brink of separation and may not even be sure that they want to stay together. Therapy is a great first step to discover what you both truly want. My aim is to guide you to overcome the challenges that you’re experiencing, communicate more effectively and to rebuild [...]
Yes, absolutely. One person working on themselves and the relationship really can make a big difference to the overall happiness and harmony of the relationship. In fact, I have seen this alone save many relationships. You can improve your reactions an understand more about the role you play in the challenges you face. By you [...]
It’s ok to feel uncomfortable talking about sex, but talking about it is also the only way we can really make change. I will always do my best to ensure you feel comfortable. The feedback I’ve had from past clients is they are always more comfortable than they thought they would be. You’re always at [...]
Therapy is an investment for your relationship, your happiness and your future. When considering this also ask yourself: ‘What is the likely cost of us not doing something?’ and ‘What is it worth to me to have the relationship and sex life I’m longing for?’ I’ve seen many couples on the brink of separation who [...]
The number of sessions you attend depends on the challenges you’re facing in your relationship. Although most people see noticeable changes from the very first session, to make lasting positive change in a relationship, requires more than just one session. The challenges you're facing have taken time to get to where they are - it [...]
In the first session, I aim to fully understand your relationship and the challenges you’re facing. You'll also get practical tools and advice so you see an immediate benefit. I’ll also share with you a detailed plan of the different modules we’ll cover and how we move forward. In the past, people have told me [...]