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5 Things I wish Men Knew About Women and Sex

Maintain a satisfying, loving, thriving sex life involves emotional and relationship factors like spending time together, trust, openness, generosity and intimacy. But this isn’t all we need. It’s also vital that we understand how our bodies work, discover the mechanics of pleasure and know the differences between masculine and feminine sexual energy. Simple, vital [...]

2018-06-08T05:33:08+00:00 0 Comments

Thriving as a Single on Valentines Day

I recently had a single girlfriend call me to ask for suggestions of things to do for Valentine’s day, since all her couple friends were spending the evening together and all the bars and restaurants near her house will be packed with loved-up lovers. I get it. I actually feel like Valentine's Day in [...]

2018-02-21T02:15:32+00:00 0 Comments

Inviting your lover to intimacy: How to initiate sex with soul

Initiating sexual intimacy is a scary prospect for many of us. We’re all sensitive to the shame of rejection. We can all feel worried about looking silly in front of the person we love. And many of us simply don’t know how to ‘make a move’. Who usually initiates sex in your relationship? Couples [...]

2018-03-17T10:36:09+00:00 0 Comments

Sexy women make bad mothers. According to our underlying biases.

The more ‘sexual’ a woman is perceived to be, the less she is perceived as a good mother. Can we talk about this for a minute? When I uncovered current research recently, I was just blown away. According to numerous studies, the more ‘sexual’ a woman is perceived to be, the less she is [...]

2018-03-17T10:36:52+00:00 0 Comments

Where to start when you haven’t had sex in months – or even years

Sexual intimacy just doesn't seem to happen anymore. Perhaps it's been a month? A few months? Or maybe even a couple of years? It’s more common than most of us realise. We tend to think everyone else has a great relationship and sex life. We can think that there’s something wrong with us because [...]

2019-05-14T06:52:28+00:00 23 Comments

How Embodiment and Pleasure can help you in Love, Life and Business

  My journey to getting out of my head and learning to connect with my body led to an incredible turning point in my life. I was 22 and just discovered Tantric Yoga. I had never been very good at meditating. My mind seemed to actually get BUSIER every time I tried to sit [...]

2018-03-17T10:41:10+00:00 0 Comments

2 Questions to tell you whether it’s time to leave your relationship or commit to making it work.

You love your partner, but you seem to have more rough patches than good times lately.  You see the beauty in your partner and the good in the relationship, but you wonder if you’re just delaying the inevitable by staying together. You’re torn and unsure what to do.  Do you stay and try to [...]

2018-06-08T05:21:19+00:00 0 Comments

How to quickly ignite your sexual desire and deepen your pleasure

  Have you ever felt like you want to be intimate with your partner, but your body and pussy just don’t seem to be coming to the party? Maybe you mentally feel like sex but your body just isn’t showing physical signs of arousal, like lubrication. I think it’s probably happened to all of [...]

2018-03-17T10:42:33+00:00 0 Comments

How to get over a break up. With courage and grace.

  If you’re on my mailing list, you’ll know that I recently experienced a breakup. While I’m (truly) feeling great now, breaking up is never easy. Like relationships, I see breakups as an opportunity to learn about ourselves and grow. I also believe that how we deal them can impact our next relationship and [...]

2018-03-17T10:43:03+00:00 0 Comments

How to find your secret pleasure zones

    When I was studying to become a sexologist, I learned some pretty interesting things… I always imagined my future career to include sharing all the fascinating practical tips and tricks I was discovering. Nowadays, as a fully qualified sex therapist and sexologist, I occasionally do that, but more often I teach people [...]

2018-03-17T10:43:32+00:00 0 Comments

How to get a man to go to Couples Therapy

  Truth: Women are more likely to be unsatisfied in our relationship than men. We’re also more likely to request or initiate Couples Therapy. While, to you, it can seem like the most practical thing in the world to get professional tools and advice for more understanding, harmony and happiness in your relationship, your [...]

2018-03-17T10:44:36+00:00 0 Comments