About Isiah McKimmie

This author has not yet filled in any details.
So far Isiah McKimmie has created 31 blog entries.

The very first step in Couples Therapy + how it can radically change your relationship

I remember the first time I went to therapy like it was yesterday. I remember how I’d dismissed my doctor’s suggestion that I talk to someone, because ‘I’m not the kind of person that needs to do that’. I remember how angry I’d felt with my friend who also suggested it. She happened to [...]

2018-06-26T03:04:55+00:00 0 Comments

The Orgasm Episode – What stops us reaching orgasm and how to increase your chance of having an O tonight

I believe that all women deserve to feel confident, empowered and deeply pleasured around sex. And yet, there’s so much about it that we’re not taught. Knowledge is power beauty - so today I’m talking about orgasms. It’s stuff that I believe we all should have been taught, but probably weren’t. If we believe [...]

2018-06-25T07:41:34+00:00 0 Comments

Opening to Deep Love, Rocking Relationships & Soulful Sex with Melissa Ambrosini

What’s the secret to rocking, soulful sex? How do you learn to love again after gut-wrenching heartbreak? How do we move on from self-criticism to truly and deeply love ourselves? Just how important is sex to a relationship? In today’s podcast episode, I’m talking to the incredible Melissa Ambrosini. We’re answering all these questions and [...]

2018-06-13T05:58:56+00:00 0 Comments

Wholehearted Episode 1 – Becoming a Sexologist + Sex Thereapist

Welcome to the  first episode of the Wholehearted: Love, Sex + Intimacy Podcast. After a looooong break from podcasting, I’m pretty damn excited to be back on the airwaves for you. I’m looking forward to sharing honest conversations, real sex education + powerful advice to help you revel in deep intimacy, loving sex and [...]

2018-06-12T02:10:57+00:00 0 Comments

5 Things I wish Men Knew About Women and Sex

Maintain a satisfying, loving, thriving sex life involves emotional and relationship factors like spending time together, trust, openness, generosity and intimacy. But this isn’t all we need. It’s also vital that we understand how our bodies work, discover the mechanics of pleasure and know the differences between masculine and feminine sexual energy. Simple, vital [...]

2018-06-08T05:33:08+00:00 0 Comments

Thriving as a Single on Valentines Day

I recently had a single girlfriend call me to ask for suggestions of things to do for Valentine’s day, since all her couple friends were spending the evening together and all the bars and restaurants near her house will be packed with loved-up lovers. I get it. I actually feel like Valentine's Day in [...]

2018-02-21T02:15:32+00:00 0 Comments

Inviting your lover to intimacy: How to initiate sex with soul

Initiating sexual intimacy is a scary prospect for many of us. We’re all sensitive to the shame of rejection. We can all feel worried about looking silly in front of the person we love. And many of us simply don’t know how to ‘make a move’. Who usually initiates sex in your relationship? Couples [...]

2018-03-17T10:36:09+00:00 0 Comments

Sexy women make bad mothers. According to our underlying biases.

The more ‘sexual’ a woman is perceived to be, the less she is perceived as a good mother. Can we talk about this for a minute? When I uncovered current research recently, I was just blown away. According to numerous studies, the more ‘sexual’ a woman is perceived to be, the less she is [...]

2018-03-17T10:36:52+00:00 0 Comments

Where to start when you haven’t had sex in months – or even years

Sexual intimacy just doesn't seem to happen anymore. Perhaps it's been a month? A few months? Or maybe even a couple of years? It’s more common than most of us realise. We tend to think everyone else has a great relationship and sex life. We can think that there’s something wrong with us because [...]

2018-09-20T06:05:13+00:00 11 Comments

How Embodiment and Pleasure can help you in Love, Life and Business

  My journey to getting out of my head and learning to connect with my body led to an incredible turning point in my life. I was 22 and just discovered Tantric Yoga. I had never been very good at meditating. My mind seemed to actually get BUSIER every time I tried to sit [...]

2018-03-17T10:41:10+00:00 0 Comments

2 Questions to tell you whether it’s time to leave your relationship or commit to making it work.

You love your partner, but you seem to have more rough patches than good times lately.  You see the beauty in your partner and the good in the relationship, but you wonder if you’re just delaying the inevitable by staying together. You’re torn and unsure what to do.  Do you stay and try to [...]

2018-06-08T05:21:19+00:00 0 Comments